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Podcast Transcript: Exploring Penile Girth Enchancement Techniques

with Dr. Amy Pearlman

Patients seeking penile girth enhancement often do so for both physical and psychological reasons. When treating this patient population, understanding your patient’s goal is as critical as mastering the aesthetics. In this episode of BackTable Urology, Dr. Amy Pearlman, co-founder of PRIME Institute Miami, meets with our host Dr. Jose Silva to discuss practical tips for treating patients that seek penile girth enhancement. You can read the full transcript below and listen to this episode here on BackTable.com.

Table of Contents

Penile Girth Enhancement Basics

Who Considers Girth Procedures & How Urologists Guide Them

PhalloFILL’s Role in Standardizing Penile Filler Practice

Reversibility as a Cornerstone of Penile Girth Enhancement

From Consult to Completion: Same-Day Approach to Girth Enhancement

Defining Goals in Patient Consultations

Partner Dynamics in Girth Enhancement Decisions

Building Trust Before the First Visit

Optimizing Outcomes with Adjunctive Sexual Wellness Tools

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Exploring Penile Girth Enchancement Techniques with Dr. Amy Pearlman on the BackTable Urology Podcast
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[Dr. Jose Silva]:
This is Jose Silva, your host this week. We are happy to have as guest this week Dr. Amy Pearlman. Dr. Pearlman went to University of Miami for undergrad, then did medical school at Baylor College of Medicine, followed by a urology residency at University of Pennsylvania, and lastly, a fellowship in urologic reconstruction, prosthetic urology, and fertility from Wake Forest. She was the Director of Men's Health at University of Iowa, and currently, she went back to Miami to co-found, twin sister, the Prime Institute. Amy, welcome back to BackTable.

[Dr. Amy Pearlman]:
Jose, it's so good to be back with you. Thank you for having me.

[Dr. Jose Silva]:
Before we start on the topic today, we're going to be talking about penile girth enhancement, but before that, talk to us about your transition. I mean, you were in academic urology and now you have-- You're a co-owner, you're a small entrepreneur business at Miami. How is that going?

[Dr. Amy Pearlman]:
Yes, I've really delved into the doctorpreneurship space here, Jose. I was at the University of Iowa for four and a half years, directed the men's health program there. The University of Iowa is just really a gem in the Midwest, and I'm so glad that I started the-- Really built the foundation of my career there. It really helped me understand the needs and the wants of the everyday man.

I ended up starting my own practice with my twin sister about two years ago in the Miami, Florida area. My sister's a gastroenterologist. We've created this really special concierge practice, where we give people our time. It's no fault of the University of Iowa, or most big academic institutions, or most big multi-specialty practices, it's just part of the downside of being in a big healthcare system, as we're so often-- We have a lack of time to spend with our patients.

In my current practice, I really give people that time. The transition was humbling, Jose, the first year was definitely a humbling year. My sister and I were really seeing patients from different locations. I was doing mostly telemedicine. Now, most of my practice is in-person. My sister's office is a couple of doors down from my office. We share a lot of mutual patients. Now, I'm also seeing women this year, and it's been really fun being able to see men and women. It's been a transition, but I can give people my time right now.

[Dr. Jose Silva]:
Awesome. In terms of the Prime Institute, I see a lot of videos of you and your sister. You're promoting health, not just sexually, there's nutrition, other stuff. How are you incorporating that into your clinic? Is it like-- Do you give a speech to the patient, or is it something more precise, depending on the patient's need?

[Dr. Amy Pearlman]:
We don't just talk the talk. We walk the walk, and our entire office really epitomizes what we mean by holistic health. If I were to take you on a tour of our office, really, every single room speaks volumes about the pillars of our practice. Let me give you an example here. The first room, if I were to take you on a tour, is a sexual wellness room. It has a lot of different sexual wellness products.

I have two bookshelves. If I were to fill your bookshelf in back of you with sexual wellness products, that would be my first room. So many people will never walk into an adult, or a novelty store, and people are too afraid to purchase something online for fear of what will show up on their Facebook feed the next day. It's been really helpful for me to show people, like really show and tell from that office, in terms of all those products, and it's also where I see my female patients.

Then, the next room down is a lounge, because, for so much of what you and I do in the office, and what many of us as urologists do, is we expect people to walk into our offices, and share with us things that they've never told anyone before. We expect that they are just going to feel comfortable doing that, just because they are in the presence of a physician. We've really tried to create a space that helps them feel more comfortable.

As soon as our patients walk in, our receptionist, my sister, or I, we will ask them, "Can I get you some water? Would you like warm water, cold water?" If someone is, let's say, needs to take a business call, we have them hang out in the lounge area. It's really for patient comfort. Then, we have a gym. Yes, we have a gym in our office space, and we don't necessarily have patients work out in the gym, but because my sister is a gastroenterologist, and her practice focuses on sports nutrition, and medical weight management, she will show people when she recommends that they get, let's say, a walking treadmill for their office with a standing desk.

Hey, you walk in the gym, you'll see what you can get on Amazon for $200 or $300, and how we set that up with a standing desk. Then, she'll show people how to do resistance training, even when they're on the go, and traveling internationally. Then, the next door down is essentially like a food pantry. It's where my sister has a Seca bioimpedance scale, so we can actually track the actual measures that actually give us objective information about cardiometabolic health, testing things like visceral adiposity, and skeletal muscle mass.

She's also created, again, if I were to take that bookshelf, and put a whole bunch of items from a grocery store on there, she has bad options, and then better options, because it doesn't matter how much money these people have, how successful or educated they are, people have never been told how to read a nutrition label. Even in my clinics, even for patients that are not necessarily seeing my sister, I will take them over to that room, and just give them some examples, so the next time they're at the grocery store, I want them to make the next better decision when they're picking something up as a snack.

Then, we have my procedure room. In my procedure room, I have a big screen TV on the wall. I dim the lights. I have ambient lighting. I have LED candles. When I was creating this space, and I was working with a medical supplier, he said, "Do you want a big OR light in here?" I thought for a minute and I said, "Actually, no." I want as little-- I just need as little light as possible, just so I can see what I'm doing, and really no light above that.

I'll ask my patients, because that's where I do all the girth enhancement procedures. I'll ask them, "Hey, Bill, would you like the lights dimmed, or would you like them on?" I have had one patient out of many who's preferred the light on. I just dim the lights. I can see perfectly fine. Again, I think that helps set the scene for comfort. Then, we have my room here. This is my consultation room I have.

This is a new piece of art I hung up, a gift from a friend, that, I don't know if you can see it with the glare, but it's a person working on a car. In so many ways as a urologist, we oftentimes think of ourselves as plumbers, but in many ways I think of myself as a mechanic, and I'm-- The person's great. They're like a vintage car, and I'm just trying to tune them up a little bit, maybe replace some parts when needed.

Then, I have all these demo products behind me here that show anatomy. Again, we can't expect that anyone that's coming into our office has ever sat down with someone to be taught about their anatomy. In order to understand dysfunction, you first have to understand normal structure and function. Oftentimes, that's where we begin. Then, I have additional walls in my office that talk about fertility products, testosterone, how to last longer, orgasm sooner, and erectile restoration. It's in many ways, a little museum.

[Dr. Jose Silva]:
You have the whole package. Somebody in their 40s wasn't tuned up, you have your sister that will give him the part, the nutrition part, exercise, losing weight. Then, if the low-- Testosterone is low, or they need some extra help, they go to you. That's awesome.

[Dr. Amy Pearlman]:
Thanks Jose.

Penile Girth Enhancement Basics

[Dr. Jose Silva]:
Penile girth enhancement. Was this something you were doing back in Iowa, or you started doing this in Miami?

[Dr. Amy Pearlman]:
I started doing this procedure in Miami, but the questions about girth enhancement, and enhancement didn't start in Miami. They started when I was in training. I think it's a common question that we get asked as urologists is, "Are there any safe ways to improve my length or girth?" I think for many of us, we're used to telling people you're within normal limits.

We think about the micro penis. That's a very small patient population. Pretty much, every man who comes to see us, is going to have a normal size penis. We're used to telling him that his penis is normal. In what other areas of our lives do we expect that people are going to be satisfied with the status quo? Cosmetics plays a role in so many other specialties, dermatology, plastic surgery, oculoplastics. Why wouldn't it make sense for us as urologists to say, if there are safe options now to offer patients, we should really be leading the charge on that.

[Dr. Jose Silva]:
No. Yes, exactly. I mean, like you mentioned, that's something that even during residency, a patient comes for a kidney stone, "Hey, do you guys know about penis enhancement. Make it bigger." It's something that comes up in the conversation at some point with patients. When you're talking about penile girth enhancement, what exactly-- What it is?

[Dr. Amy Pearlman]:
There are a lot of different options for penile girth enhancement, and we separate them out into injectable options, and then surgical options. Even within the injectable space, you name it, someone has injected it into the penis. Now, we think of things as more temporary fillers, and then more permanent fillers. To be very clear, the only option that I offer in my clinic are temporary dermal fillers.

I use a product, hyaluronic acid. It is a product that we use off-label in the penis. It is approved, FDA approved for facial uses. I tell all of my patients, "This is not an approved product for the penis." There has yet to be a single patient who has a problem with that. When we think about all the different therapies we offer as urologists and within medicine, a lot of the therapies we prescribe to our patients are actually used off-label. If we actually looked at the indications for specific treatments. We use a lot of things off-label, and patients are okay with that.

[Dr. Jose Silva]:
You mentioned, it is something that is absorbed by the body, I guess, at some point, it's non-toxic. How long does it last?

[Dr. Amy Pearlman]:
Hyaluronic acid is a naturally occurring substance in the body, and in its very simplest terms, it's a sugar molecule. The next time you go to a convenience store, if you just look down the aisle of facial products or moisturizers, you're going to see that a lot of the products have hyaluronic acid in them. Hyaluronic acid is naturally in our eyes, and in our joints, and it's a very moisturizing molecule.

It brings water to it. That's what I use in the penis. In terms of how long it lasts, that's a really good question. We're still trying to figure out that answer. I want to tell you, or I want to explain to you all why we have not been able to answer that question yet. When we look at the use of hyaluronic acid in other areas of the body, like the face, it tends to last in the lips for about 12 months, but also not all hyaluronic acid products are created equal.

It's going to depend on the exact product that someone's going to use. When it comes to the penis, I'll give you an example of a patient that might see me. He's coming in and we put the product in, and then he's reaching out to me at random times throughout his follow-up. He might come back six months later and say, "Hey, I was just driving through Miami. I would like more filler."

What I explain to my patients is really the only way for us to be able to answer that question, is if I did the filler procedure and said, "I'm going to need you to come back to see me once a year for the next 5 years or 10 years, I'm not going to give you any additional filler. I just want to measure your penis." Every single man has laughed at me when I've said that before, right?

That is the challenge, is getting these guys to come back when I'm not giving them additional treatments. The other thing is they just randomly ask for additional treatments depending on what's going on, and what their needs are. Then lastly, it depends on how much filler they want, and what their girth goals are. Now, there are several studies that have been conducted outside of the United States, and those studies put in all the filler at once.

On average, they put in about 20 units of filler at once, which is a very high volume of filler. That is not how I do that procedure under the PhalloFILL protocol. Our protocol is to inject about four to six units during each session. If someone, let's say, has three to four sessions about three to four weeks apart, and then let's say 10 weeks later has another session, again, it's a little bit challenging in terms of knowing how long it lasts.

In my personal experience though, we tend to get what we expect, and I've had patients come in six months later, and really retain a lot of that filler. I've also had patients come in less than that, a few months later, and they've lost some of the filler. It really depends on how quickly that person metabolizes. We know when it comes to Botox, the last time I had Botox, I was wrinkling my face about six weeks after, and I was like, "Darn, I didn't get three months out of it." Some people just metabolize it quicker than others.

Who Considers Girth Procedures & How Urologists Guide Them

[Dr. Jose Silva]:
In terms of, who is a candidate, or who's not a candidate? What is the typical patient that goes to your office for this? Are they going just for this, or they're going for something else? Then, they see that you're doing this, and they start asking questions, or how does it usually happens?

[Dr. Amy Pearlman]:
Yes, good question. I don't have girth enhancements plastered on all of my walls because my mission–

[Dr. Jose Silva]:
You should, you should. You'll probably will get more.

[Dr. Amy Pearlman]:
Oh my gosh. My mission is not to introduce a confidence issue into someone who doesn't have a concern about the size of their penis. There are some things in my office that are out in the open, and other things that are a little bit more subtle. I have these demos off the side of where my desk is, that really demonstrates what someone's girth is, and what their girth goals are.

I'll have some people look around my room, and they'll say, "Oh, what's that?" That might be an opening for me to talk about girth enhancement. There are a lot of patients who come to see me that don't even know that I do it, and I don't necessarily bring it up. I found that there are-- Most of the guys that come to see me, they're either coming in specifically for girth enhancement, they're coming in with any type of sexual dysfunction, usually erectile dysfunction, or low testosterone, or Peyronie's disease.

I do bring up the size in a way that doesn't, I don't think, introduce any self-doubt, or confidence issues. I want to give you an example of a question I might ask. If I'm talking to someone with erectile dysfunction, I might simply ask him towards the end of that conversation, "Do you have any length, or girth concerns?" I don't ask him, "Do you feel like your penis is small? Do you feel like it's short?" I simply ask, "Do you have any length or girth concerns?"

A lot of people will say, "I mean, doesn't everyone?" Then I'll say, "Well, we have options. Would you like to hear more about it?" There are some guys that would like to have a larger penis, but they're just not willing to go through what it takes to get a larger penis. They're not really-- They may not even want to entertain the conversation. Then, there are a lot of guys who just didn't know that it was possible.

They are very much interested in hearing about what some of those options are. The guys that come into my office are the normal dudes walking down the streets of Coral Gables. They are truck drivers. They are accountants, investment bankers, they are businessmen. They're just-- They're retired. They're 77 years old and saying, "Hey, this has been a concern for most of my life, and I'm not dead yet. What can you do for me?" They're the normal dudes, yes.

[Dr. Jose Silva]:
You're not telling that after you examine them, right? You wait a couple of minutes.

[Dr. Amy Pearlman]:
All my patients have normal size penises, and I tell them that. They know that, they know it.

[Dr. Jose Silva]:
No, and also, a lot of patients, they always, they complain that it has shrunk in the past years just with age, or usually with the-- They're a little bit more obese, more fatty tissue there, so it looks smaller. I guess, that's also part of the conversation, "Hey, do you think it's smaller now compared to before?" Everybody had-- When they were younger, it were up to the knees. Now, it's smaller, so.

[Dr. Amy Pearlman]:
Yes. When we talk about that a lot in these conversations, you would ask the question, what does that person say to me when he walks in the door? He might be coming in for a girth enhancement conversation. I'll tell you, that conversation could be very quick. Honestly, I could say, "Where do you think you are in terms of girth? Where do you want to be? Okay, I think it's going to take this amount of filler. Let's go in the next room."

Some of those visits are pretty quick, but again, I use that as an opportunity. This is a guy who came in for a very specific reason. I actually broaden the conversation to a comprehensive men's health visit. I say, "Hey, have you ever had any hormone concerns? Have you had your testosterone checked? How are your erections? Any curvature concerns?" We end up talking about a lot of men's health issues.

In fact, I ended up managing a lot of their testosterone therapy, because I've built their trust talking about the girth enhancement. Then, they say, "Oh, she's pretty cool. I want you to manage my testosterone." I really broaden those conversations. As you mentioned, we talk about, have you always been concerned about your size, or has your size been stable throughout your adult years? Were you bigger before and have you lost length, or girth?

If they say the latter, that they've lost size, that's where, again, I'm broadening this discussion. We're talking about, might they have gained some weight to bury their penis a little bit? We'll go into that discussion. We'll talk about the use of vacuum pumps, and traction therapy. There have been several guys where I've actually said, "Look, I actually wouldn't recommend filler today. If you want to see if you can restore some size before I put filler in, why don't you try some traction and a vacuum pump?" I'll postpone their filler for another day.

[Dr. Jose Silva]:
You're also selling the traction device, and the vacuum right there in the office?

[Dr. Amy Pearlman]:
I do, yes. That's part of that, the sexual wellness product room, what I've called a Medtail. It really makes these products convenient for patients, so that they can walk out of the door. What I also really like, I have some patients who come in with their product, and with their suitcase, we go right next door to my procedure room, and I say, "Hey, do you want me to show you how to use this device before you leave my office today?"

It is so amazing how many patients I've seen who have purchased these devices online, they don't know how to use it. They walk in the office and they say, it doesn't work, or it's painful. These devices, they do work. It's just, they don't know how to use them, and how to use them to optimize comfort. That is what part of-- I would say one of my most important roles is, is to educate people on how to use these really good products, and those would be vacuum pumps and traction devices.

[Dr. Jose Silva]:
We go, in my case, first we go back to-- I'm part of a big health system, so definitely high volume. I tell them, "Hey, go online, buy this stuff," whatever. Sometimes they know how to use it, but sometimes they come, "Hey, I bought it." Then, I take my time to help them, but because they already put me in the spot, so I need to help. It's like you mentioned. Usually, in this academic centers, health system, we don't have that time that you have to-- You're dedicating to that patient that to really help them what they need. They sometimes go through other processes, injections, maybe something as basic as a vacuum is what they need.

[Dr. Amy Pearlman]:
Yes. Here would be my advice, because I started doing this when I was at the University of Iowa, and running a busy clinic, is I just created a packet, and I didn't have the anatomy of most of my patients at the time, because the majority of my patients were men. I asked my patients, I had a patient, Dennis, who provided me a lot of feedback. I said, "Dennis, you really struggled when you were using a vacuum pump. Would you mind writing down about five bullet points of things that you've learned that I can share with the next guys? My next patients?"

I compiled a bunch of bullet points. I asked my public physical therapist, "Hey, what recommendations do you think that I can provide patients? We all have this shared message." If you're in a busy clinic, which a lot of people are, even just giving them a one or two-page document that says, "Look, this is what other guys have told me. These are the tips and tricks," that can be very beneficial.

Two, if someone prefers communicating through video, all you have to do is create a five-minute video demonstrating technique, or even just include a link to whatever product you recommend that has a good demonstration video, which a lot of times the companies already have. A good exit strategy is to say, "Look, I don't have the time to show you this in my clinic, but here's a really good link to see exactly how to use it."

[Dr. Jose Silva]:
No, and you sent me last time, you sent me the packet. I print it out, and then maybe I give it once, or twice and then, it just caught up, but I need to definitely do it. It was very good. Let's go back to that talk, to the patient, that initial talk about the enhancement, side effects. What do you talk about once the patient's already saying, "Hey, I want to do this."? How do you go about that?

[Dr. Amy Pearlman]:
Yes, I want to actually answer your other question, which you had asked me before, which is, who is a candidate, and who is not a candidate for penile girth enhancement with hyaluronic acid? Most patients are actually going to be candidates, which is great. For some of the other options, like a silicone implant, they're typically not going to implant that in someone who is uncircumcised.

We can put filler in people who are uncircumcised, so we don't require that they get a circumcision beforehand. Now, the outcomes, it's going to be a little bit trickier to put filler in, and there are some other considerations in terms of injection technique if someone is uncircumcised, but I have several patients that are uncircumcised, and they've gotten a great result. That doesn't factor into it.

Men who are on blood thinners, initially, I was nervous about doing that, and I've definitely been more strict in the past in terms of holding blood thinners. I have some patients that will just hold it, because they don't want to potentially increase the risk of a bleeding issue. I've also done the procedure with guys on antiplatelets and blood thinners, and you know what? They did fine.

I think with any sort of in-office procedure that we all have our own comfort level, but that would not be necessarily a contraindication. Penile implants, I will tell you, and this is, I don't have any research to support this other than my own anecdotal experience, I would say some of my happiest patients are guys who have inflatable penile implants in, who have great devices.

Their devices are seated extraordinarily well, their implants are working fantastically, but they just want larger girth with their implant in. The technique is a little bit different. I use smaller needles, and obviously, I'm trying to stay away. I don't want to touch that implant even with a nine-foot pole. The injection technique is a little bit different, but they are very happy patients. That doesn't really play a factor.

Then, someone-- I would say the biggest concern would be a guy with a buried penis, and not necessarily like a buried penis where you can't expose it, because obviously you're not going to be able to put filler on that guy, but someone that when he stands up, he really buries his penis. I've had to turn down a couple of guys where I've said, "I can lay you back, and the filler is going to look amazing with you laying back in this procedural chair. Once you stand up, it is just all going to go all to the tip." I've had to turn down some of those guys.

PhalloFILL’s Role in Standardizing Penile Filler Practice

[Dr. Jose Silva]:
All right. Let's go to the injection. How do you choose a site? Then, you mentioned that it migrates?

[Dr. Amy Pearlman]:
Depending on their body habitus. I will say that the injection technique is really important. What is equally, if not more important, is what happens after the procedure is complete. Let me define how I work with PhalloFILL, because there are some companies that you might hear, and I think some people are a little bit confused as to what that company actually provides.

As a urologist, we are oftentimes not trained how to perform cosmetic procedures on the penis. We might get trained in terms of doing buried penises, things like that. When it comes to really cosmetic procedures like girth enhancement, what we might learn in training is how to manage the complications, because we have to cover the ER as trainees. We typically don't have experience actually seeing just a primary procedure for enhancement.

In order to learn how to do that, we have to be taught by someone. Especially, within the cosmetic space, you don't want to just reach out to any random person to ask them to teach you. They may or may not be willing to do that anyway. When I started my practice in Miami about two years ago, a little bit before that, I reached out to two of my colleagues who were already doing this procedure, and they were working with PhalloFILL.

I asked them, "What do you think of this procedure?" They said, "We really like it, and you should reach out to the company to learn how to do it." I would say, the most important thing that PhalloFILL does, is they're a company that trains people like me, urologists, how to do this procedure. They've gone through a lot of different iterations in terms of the actual injection protocol, how they counsel patients, the post-procedural protocol. They've already done all the experimentation.

I don't want to experiment with patients. My patients are coming in, and this is not covered by insurance. It's a purely elective procedure. I want to know exactly how I can treat this patient to get them the best outcomes. I don't want to experiment with that procedure. That is a huge part of what PhalloFILL provides. They're also a distributor. I get the medication through that company, right? Yes, I could get it not going through that company, but then I wouldn't have the advantage of learning how to do the procedure.

Then lastly, they help with lead generation. There are a lot of men that would want penile enhancement. There's also a lot of counseling that goes into it before someone actually schedules the procedure. They have this whole team and infrastructure in place, where they're talking to patients on the phone, sometimes for a year, two years, really answering a lot of their questions. By the time they call my office, they're ready to schedule. It really makes that process a lot easier. They direct leads to different clinics depending on the patient's location.

[Dr. Jose Silva]:
Then, you become the mechanic of that company.

[Dr. Amy Pearlman]:
Right.

[Dr. Jose Silva]:
You're doing the-- It makes it easier. Every time a patient comes to the office, "I want this," it's, "Okay, let's go ahead."

[Dr. Amy Pearlman]:
Yes, exactly.

Reversibility as a Cornerstone of Penile Girth Enhancement

[Dr. Jose Silva]:
Amy, so in terms of going back to the PhalloFILL versus other things that are out there, other products, you mentioned silicone. It's mainly a safety profile that you decided to go this route, other than the teaching and everything that they did?

[Dr. Amy Pearlman]:
Exactly. It's a safety profile. Ultimately, really for any therapy or intervention that I recommend to patients, efficacy is not the number one driving factor that determines whether or not I offer someone an intervention. The number one factor is a safety profile. Regardless of the therapy, I first define how can I hurt this person? Let me give you an example.

For someone who's coming in, who let's say has low testosterone, and is interested in testosterone therapy, I have to ask him, is he interested in current, or future fertility? Especially in South Florida, it doesn't matter how old the person is. I don't care if they're 66 or 70 years old. I'm still asking them. Now, oftentimes, those guys are laughing at me saying, "No, when my grandkids are having grandkids, I'm not interested." [laughs]

I say, I have to ask, I can't make any assumptions. Because that's how I could hurt someone if they want to expand their family. That is the main thing. Once I define how I can hurt them, can I fix it if I do? When it comes-- If we bring that conversation back to filler, how I can hurt someone, is if this person was coming in with a perfectly normal penis, and then I mess up his penis in a way that we cannot come back from, in a way that his penis will never be the same, right? That is how I can hurt him.

The safety profile is really key. What I love about hyaluronic acid is, even though, despite the fact it doesn't last forever, my patients don't want something that lasts forever. They want something that if they decide in the future, they want it to go away, they want it to dissolve, they want a different size, we can do that. I can also dissolve it with another medication called hyaluronidase. That helps me tailor it if I need to smooth up a spot, or if I need to get rid of-- Now, none of my patients have asked me to dissolve their filler, to get rid of it. If I needed to, I could.

[Dr. Jose Silva]:
Yes, so I think for rectal spacing, there's a company that uses hyaluronic acid with contrast for radiation, and it lasts, supposedly, from three to six months, like you've been mentioning.

[Dr. Amy Pearlman]:
This is a question for you, in what other aspect of urology, or procedure that we offer within urology, can we do something that is completely reversible?

[Dr. Jose Silva]:
Botox.

[Dr. Amy Pearlman]:
We can-- The Botox will wear away. It's not like we can use a reversal agent.

[Dr. Jose Silva]:
Ah, exactly. Something that is reversible. Yes, exactly.

[Dr. Amy Pearlman]:
We could do a vasectomy, and do a vasectomy reversal, but it's not going to be the same.

[Dr. Jose Silva]:
Oh, yes. Yes, exactly.

[Dr. Amy Pearlman]:
I look at this as, when I compare it to all the other surgeries in which I was trained, this is completely reversible.

[Dr. Jose Silva]:
Yes, exactly. Have you had to use the reversal agent?

[Dr. Amy Pearlman]:
Yes, on a couple of occasions. When I use that agent, I tell my patients during the initial consultation, this is just my practice, but I say, "If you need me to smooth something out, or you want me to get rid of any of the filler, I'll bring you back for another visit. I won't charge for that visit, and I won't charge for that medication." Because I don't want them to be like, "Oh, I really want this to go away, but I don't have the funds to do it." I just-- I bring them in and I take care of it.

It's very infrequent that I have to use it. My goal is to always get someone to what their girth goal is, because going back to our protocol, where we put in four to six units each time versus all the filler in at once, we found that when you stack that, then oftentimes, you can even out the penis with each subsequent session, where smoothing things out with the hyaluronidase actually becomes unnecessary.

[Dr. Jose Silva]:
Then, for those patients that you put the hyaluronidase, why was it-- They didn't like it? They didn't like how it looked?

[Dr. Amy Pearlman]:
For two reasons, one is, everyone has their own aesthetic in terms of what they want their penis to look like. Where we're putting the fillers on the sides of the penis here laterally, and we don't inject towards the tip of the penis here, because we want to maintain this contour between the shaft and the glans. Now, as we're building up these filler columns on the penis, depending on what the size of the glans is, the filler columns might actually be larger than the glans.

I've had some patients where the filler goes up here, and when their penis is more retracted, and the glans goes in, then it looks like they're partially uncircumcised with the skin going over. I have a lot of patients that don't care, that doesn't bother them at all. I've had one or two patients where they just wanted me to bring back some of that contour, and just dissolve a little bit towards the tip. That was one scenario.

The other is, when we are injecting towards the base of the penis, we can't inject too far back towards the base, because what we find is, then some of that filler might move down towards the scrotum, or the ventral aspect of the penis. It's not dangerous, and I haven't had anything bad happen from that, but I have had some patients where it then just makes the base of their penis quite large. One wasn't able to fit a condom over the area, so he simply asked, "Hey, would you mind dissolving some at the base?" Which is easy enough to do.

[Dr. Jose Silva]:
You go at three at nine?

[Dr. Amy Pearlman]:
We go at three at nine, yes.

[Dr. Jose Silva]:
Multiple injection, or just one, and retracting the needle?

[Dr. Amy Pearlman]:
There are a lot of different techniques that people will describe. Some people will describe using cannulas. I've also seen other techniques where people will inject on the dorsum of the penis as well. Our protocol is to really focus on three and nine because, again, it's a safe spot of the penis. When a man is looking down, that's the part that he sees that's then going to be wider. It's like that locker room look.

We're not going to inject ventrally at six o'clock, because that's where we know the urethra is. Then dorsally, you have the neurovascular bundle. Now, I've injected some men along the dorsum, and it looks totally fine. It just depends on what they want their aesthetic to be. I've seen some patients who came to me just with some concerns. They had filler elsewhere, and they had the filler injected circumferentially.

I'm sure that some patients get really good outcomes with that. I think the circumferential look when you have a lot of filler in, it makes the penis look like a balloon that you would then roll up and form into a poodle. I think it looks really good, and maintains the contour when you really focus the filler on the lateral aspects. Some people might say, "Will it make my penis look flat?"

It actually doesn't make the penis look flat, especially because we know the urethra is going to engorge with an erection. The other thing that PhalloFILL is really good at, as I mentioned, is that post-procedural protocol. We have our patients wear a sleeve afterwards. I think the sleeve is one of the most critical pieces of this whole procedure. I think it helps really round out the filler, so that it doesn't look flat.

You had mentioned, with the buried penis and with retraction, can that cause the filler to migrate? 100%, the filler can migrate. The penis, as soon as they leave the office, what does it do? It expands, it retracts, they get out of a cold shower, they go into a cold plunge. That penis can literally turtle inside the body. The sleeve that we put on has been really critical in terms of minimizing retraction, and filler migration.

[Dr. Jose Silva]:
How long does the sleeve stay?

[Dr. Amy Pearlman]:
We have patients wear the sleeve for three weeks. When we go back to who's not a candidate, it would be someone who's not willing to comply with the protocol. That's part of that discussion before I take anyone in my procedure room, is them understanding, I show them the sleeve, they touch the sleeve, and I say, "You're really going to have to wear this sleeve for three weeks."

[Dr. Jose Silva]:
That's for 24/7?

[Dr. Amy Pearlman]:
24/7, yes. We have them wear it consistently for three days. They can then take it off to shower, and then, typically, no sexual activity for about 7 to 10 days afterwards. It's really key that they follow that protocol. Some people might think that that's overkill, but I've had a lot of patients where they notice a little bit of a bump at two weeks, and then things go away, and things look good by the third week. I even see changes between the second and third week.

[Dr. Jose Silva]:
Nobody, if they can have sex at seven days, I think that's enough for them, right?

[Dr. Amy Pearlman]:
Yes, I do get some questions, and they're like, "Seriously, how am I going to do that?" Sometimes there are some more creative ways.

From Consult to Completion: Same-Day Approach to Girth Enhancement

[Dr. Jose Silva]:
Three weeks is definitely worse than a week. That's good, yes. Then, so you do the procedure. You're mentioning sometimes you evaluate the patient, and you do the procedure the same day?

[Dr. Amy Pearlman]:
Yes, so they come in for the consultation, and we'll be sitting in this consultation room for anywhere between 30 minutes for the man who's of few words, to an hour and a half just talking. In my practice, I have the luxury of having some different office spaces, and I always like to talk in my consultation room, so they're not nervous, and I'm going to peek under the sheet, and start doing an exam.

Then, if they want to proceed with the procedure, which everyone who has come to see me for a consultation has undergone the procedure the same day. They've been expecting that they're interested, except for those patients where I told them, "I don't think you're a good candidate, because of the buried penis, or retraction situation, so let's touch base in the future."

All my other patients, we go right next door, we do the procedure, they're out. I have patients who fly in, they get the procedure, they fly out the same day. I will say just some considerations when getting on a plane afterwards is, I've had some guys that I put a good amount of filler in, and then they go through security, and then something lights up, I don't know exactly what it looks like, and so they get a little pat down. I don't know if that's a good, or a bad thing, I guess they're packing some heat. I do tell my patients ahead of time just in case they get put off to the side.

[Dr. Jose Silva]:
No, that's good. In terms of logistics, you set up time to do the talk, and then the procedure.

[Dr. Amy Pearlman]:
Yes, so my consultations, when I have a new PhalloFILL patient coming in, I block off my schedule for two hours. I know that a lot of people don't have that luxury of time, but I've just built that into my practice, I don't want to be rushed. I put topical numbing medicine on the penis topical anesthetic before I even do the injections. I had an experience, this was probably about 20 years ago, where I went to the dermatologist, I had a mole on my arm, and they injected it with lidocaine, and I have never forgotten that experience of how much lidocaine burned.

It took my breath away. I think so much in medicine, not just for men, but for everyone, it's a little in-office procedure. Our patients ask us, "Will this hurt?" We say, "No, it won't." It does a little bit. Then, they lose trust in not only us, but every other healthcare provider with whom they're going to connect with in the future. My job is to figure out how can I make this as comfortable as possible?

My first PhalloFILL patient actually, he could feel the numbing medicine going in when I was injecting. He said, "Dr. Pearlman, do you have any topical?" I just so happened to have topical for another procedure. I put it on, he didn't feel a thing, and it revolutionized how I do office-based procedures after that. When do we use topical medicine in urology?

[Dr. Jose Silva]:
Never.

[Dr. Amy Pearlman]:
Never, but lidocaine burns. We just have to acknowledge that, and see what we can do.

[Dr. Jose Silva]:
Then, so you use a topical agent, and then you do a penile block or?

[Dr. Amy Pearlman]:
I do the topical, and then I am putting in lidocaine on where I'm going to end up doing the filler. Then, I create a column, I hydro-dissect with additional lidocaine. Then, I fill that space, because there's only potential space where the filler is going to go. We create that space with the lidocaine, but they're really not feeling any of that, because of the topical. Then, I put the filler in.

I recently asked a patient who is in the cosmetic space himself. He's a CRNA in a cosmetic practice, and he's had filler and Botox in his face before. I asked him, "How does this compare for me doing cosmetic procedure on your penis, to when you're getting Botox, or filler on the face?" He said it was way less painful in his penis. I've had filler and Botox in my face before. Even when I've numbed up the whole area, you can feel it. I'm telling you, my patients, they really don't feel anything in their penis. The numbing medicine works exceptionally well in that area.

[Dr. Jose Silva]:
Good to know. Will start doing it for the vasectomies. Yes.

[Dr. Amy Pearlman]:
Yes. I will say the topical numbing medicine that I use is powerful. It can cause some scrotal irritation. You've got to figure out exactly what you want in that mix, so it doesn't cause irritation. It doesn't seem to cause irritation on the penis, but I've had it cause some burning on the scrotum, especially if they've recently waxed, so don't do that.

Defining Goals in Patient Consultations

[Dr. Jose Silva]:
Amy, they do the sleeve for three weeks. Then, when do you see them again?

[Dr. Amy Pearlman]:
In general, we'll inject the four to six units each session. They can anticipate a quarter of an inch to a third of an inch increase with that amount of filler, depending on the length of their penis. We typically don't do the injection sessions any sooner than the three weeks. If someone says, "Yes, I want to knock this out as quickly as possible," then I'll just schedule them for all their sessions three weeks apart. That would be the minimum amount of time.

Then, if they say, "Okay, well, I'm going to be traveling," or, "I need some break from the sleeve, I want to come back six weeks later," that's completely fine as well. The whole protocol, it just depends on how quickly they want to get it done, and what their girth goals are. That's one of my favorite questions to ask people is, "What are your girth goals?" Jose, how do you think men answer that question? How do you think they respond to that question?

[Dr. Jose Silva]:
I have no idea. Do I need to change my underwear size, or something like that? Do I need to buy new pants?

[Dr. Amy Pearlman]:
Here, let me ask you another question based on your experience. The guys that you've had ask, "Hey, are there any ways to increase the size of my penis?" Who are those guys in your clinic?

[Dr. Jose Silva]:
I guess they're always asking for length. Definitely girth. I think length is always the topic just for those patients that are obese, have a buried penis. They say that when they were younger, they were porn stars, but now you cannot see the penis. You know how the story is. Definitely, they're always asking about length per se. We never discuss girth. Yes, I will say that. I will say a lot of them, at some point, when we are in a conversation for any topic, they might mention it.

[Dr. Amy Pearlman]:
Yes, it's interesting, because I think before I got into the girth enhancement space, I would say the same thing is, most guys and most people are thinking length. Now, that I offer girth enhancement, obviously, I'm going to see the guys who are more interested in girth, because there are a lot of guys who are like, "No, I'm fine with length, and I just want girth," or guys that would like more length, but they don't necessarily want to use traction.

It's interesting how our patient population is maybe similar, and a little bit different. Yes, and some people will say, they'll ask me, "Well, what do you think? How much size do you think I should get?" It really is a personal choice. It depends on what their perception is going to be when they look in the mirror. If they have a partner, what the size of their partner is. I don't think a lot of people are acknowledging that.

I'll tell you, when I ask patients, what are your girth goals? I think a lot of people in this space would think that person says, "Well, I'm exactly at 3.5, and I want to be exactly 5.7." Jose, those are not my patients. I show them these models, I have a whole tray of these, and I have them just walk over to it in the corner of my room and I say, "Hey, man, where do you think you are, and where do you want to be?"

They'll like mosey around, and they'll point to one, they're like, "I think I'm here." They're like, "I don't really know where I want to be, like maybe somewhere around here." These are not guys that are obsessing about the size of their penis.

Partner Dynamics in Girth Enhancement Decisions

[Dr. Jose Silva]:
Amy, you mentioned the partner part. How many times is actually, "I'm here because my partner sent me?" Does that happen, or is mainly the personal view of how things look?

[Dr. Amy Pearlman]:
I haven't had someone say that, "I'm here because my partner sent me." Most of the time, the guys come in, and their partners don't necessarily know that they're coming to see me, or they may have mentioned, and their partner is like, "Oh, I'm fine with whatever you want to do," or, "I don't really care." I think it's probably a similar conversation for women who are going in for breast augmentation, right?

There are some partners who are going to be like, "Yes, I'll drive you there, let's go together." Others are going to be like, "Babe, I find you sexy, and you don't necessarily need to get breast implants." I think it's probably pretty similar in the girth enhancement space. I did see one gentleman that his relationship was not going well with his wife. I think she like mentioned to him one day that she was wanting a divorce, and this wasn't working out, and had concerns about their sex life. He was trying to do whatever he could to like enlarge his penis, and be better.

Again, I don't think that's an unreasonable response for him. If his partner is telling him like, "Hey, this sex is not satisfying me." I think that's great that he took the initiative to be like, "Okay, how can I improve my technique? How can I improve how long I last?" That takes incredible initiative to do that. From my perspective, I'm like, "Well, what are all the different ways that I can help this guy? Maybe that will help his marriage." Obviously, there are a lot of factors that come into play there.

I had a patient recently, Jose, who he kept-- He was single when I first started doing this, and he wasn't sexually active. I've put some filler in, and he's always asked me like, "What do you think? What do you think? How much do I need?" Whatever. His penis looks great. Every time I'm like, "Look, I think you're good. Everything looks great."

He had sex recently, and he said, "Dr. Pearlman, I'm like at my max. It was a snug fit. Now, I just want to like perfect things, but I think I'm good on the girth." Sometimes you need to have a sexual experience to know exactly what that fit is going to be. It really does depend on the partner's size.

[Dr. Jose Silva]:
In those cases, if the patient is having pain, for example, will you use the hyaluronidase to make it smaller a little bit, or you just need to wait for it to just start dissolving on its own?

[Dr. Amy Pearlman]:
The guys don't want me to dissolve the filler. Usually, they've been able to insert during penetration, it just takes a little bit more time, and they have to ease their penis in. They definitely don't want me dissolving anything, because they really like it. I definitely don't want to size these guys out of whichever partner they do want to be with. I try to have that discussion with them.

It can be a little bit more challenging if someone is not in a monogamous relationship. I have one guy who loves the look of everything. For some partners, it feels great. For other people, it's really snug. That's just something that he navigates with his current size.

Building Trust Before the First Visit

[Dr. Jose Silva]:
Interesting. Interesting job you have. The other thing I wanted to ask, just out of curiosity, are you seeing, you're in Miami-- Are they mainly White Americans, Hispanics? Who's the population that is going to see you for this specific reason?

[Dr. Amy Pearlman]:
When I first moved down here, coming from Iowa, I think there was some concern that Latin men wouldn't want to see a White woman, that there was this essence of machismo. The majority of my patients are Latin men. When it comes to filler, it really spans the spectrum of nationalities and races. I think that's one of the most fun parts of my practice, is understanding this really is a shared experience of men from all different backgrounds. He does not look a certain way, believe it or not.

[Dr. Jose Silva]:
You mentioned that patients are flying to see you. They just go blindly to see you? You're doing like a telemed medicine, or telehealth visit before that?

[Dr. Amy Pearlman]:
That's one of the really nice things about working with PhalloFILL, is even for someone who's out of town, they know exactly what this procedure is about. It's also one of the reasons why I have a lot of online content on my YouTube, and other social media channels, is if someone is coming in from out of town, and they want to know, do they even want to see someone like me?

They can find me online, and see how I speak, and what my message is, and what my passion is, to see if they even want to see someone like me. I think that's beneficial. The PhalloFILL, all the conversations we have are nice. I am licensed only in a couple of states. That does limit my ability to do some consultations, but there are some ways where I can do just second opinions.

I'm not giving a specific recommendation. I'm not prescribing anything. It's more of like a second opinion. I do have a lot of guys that come in, and they've never met me before, and they just decide to do the procedure. It's oftentimes guys where this is not the first time they've considered this procedure. They've gone down all of the rabbit holes online. There are a lot of times that a patient comes in and says, they'll apologize.

They'll say, "I'm sorry, I went on Dr. Google, or I went on Reddit." Jose, when someone says that to me, I say, "That's great. Thank you. What questions do you have? What thoughts do you have? Is there something that you're nervous about? Is there an experience that you've read about online that I might be able to tell you more about?" I don't have a problem with the rabbit holes.

I think that there's a patient who's coming to see someone, and they're coming in for a cosmetic procedure, and they haven't done any research? Honestly, Jose, I'm concerned about that person.

[Dr. Jose Silva]:
That's true.

[Dr. Amy Pearlman]:
I am concerned. They should look me up. They should look up the product that I use. They should look up all the other procedures that are options. They should know exactly what they're getting themselves into. Those are the conversations, where, when I'm sitting down, and they're sitting in front of me, then we can actually have a thoughtful conversation, because they already understand those basic concepts.

[Dr. Jose Silva]:
That's great. I'll definitely start sending patients your way. Right now, we have a-- Are you taking the Brightline to Orlando, or you-- The train?

[Dr. Amy Pearlman]:
I haven't gone on the Brightline yet. I've heard so many good things about it.

[Dr. Jose Silva]:
It's super nice. You definitely should advertise, "Hey, take the Brightline. We'll pick you up. We'll do the filler. We'll send you back home." Amy, anything else we're missing? I think we cover a lot of topics.

[Dr. Amy Pearlman]:
Yes, I think my message is the following for other providers who are listening here. It's, we are lucky as urologists that we have this incredible knowledge of penile anatomy. We know the safe zones. We know the areas that we want to stay away from. Just think about all the different procedures that we've done on the penis. Think about the Peyronie's procedures with plications, incision, and grafting, complex penile implant surgery.

Those procedures are way more complex and risky than anything that I'm talking about today with you, Jose. We are talking about injecting a medication that's been used in the body for decades. It has an incredible safety profile. It is 100% reversible. It's a procedure we can do in the comfort of one's office in a way that is comfortable for patients, and they really have very little to no downtime. It is a way that we can engage men at any time in their lives in the healthcare system to say, "I know you're coming in for this reason. We're going to address your penile size concerns, but it's also an opportunity for us to discuss so many other aspects of your health as a man."

It is a way to restore confidence, or maybe not even restore, to give someone the confidence, perhaps, they've never had in their entire lives. When my patients come in, they are nervous. They are anxious to get this procedure done. When they are leaving my office, there is a pep in their step that I cannot even really put into words. Am I saying that this procedure is life changing?

I'm saying that for some people it is. Is it going to fix every aspect of someone's life if they're struggling in a lot of different areas? Not necessarily. If you-- Our patients are complex, and if we think about a fancy watch, and if we were to take apart that watch, we see all these different gears. Sometimes all I'm trying to do with the man sitting in front of me, is to move that first gear.

If that first gear is, he can wake up in the morning, and look in the mirror, and likes what he sees, that might change the way he goes about the rest of his day. I acknowledge the power and influence that we can have as urologists to change the course of someone's day. I think that's a very powerful thing, and something that we should actually use to our advantage to help a lot of men.

Optimizing Outcomes with Adjunctive Sexual Wellness Tools

[Dr. Jose Silva]:
Awesome. Well said. Amy, I thought about another question before we leave. A patient that has-- Uses a constriction ring, or a vacuum device, is it still safe to get an enhancement?

[Dr. Amy Pearlman]:
Great question. We don't have research to tell us what a vacuum pump does to filler. I will tell patients if they're interested in using a vacuum pump to-- For the guy who comes in who's lost size, I will actually recommend that he use a vacuum pump first for at least three months to see if he gets benefit before I put filler in. I've done that for a couple of guys.

Now, those guys have come back to get filler in, but at least they've used the vacuum pump to see what they could get beforehand. With constriction bands, I typically would not have them use a classic constriction band, the ones that are really tight around the base of the penis. I would have them use a looser one. Full disclosure, I am on the scientific advisory board for FirmTech.

I do like their Max PR in these situations, because it's made out of elastomer. It's not as tight, but still has the advantage of keeping the blood in the penis. That's one that I would recommend. In terms of traction therapy, I do have a lot of my patients who use the RestoreX. That's really my go-to for traction therapy. They can use that device even after filler. I typically will have them wait two or three weeks after their last filler session before they use traction, because it just clamping down on the tip of the penis, that would be perfectly fine to use after filler.

[Dr. Jose Silva]:
Excellent. Thank you, Amy, for being again in BackTable. Really always enjoy your conversations. We'll have to talk about female next time.

[Dr. Amy Pearlman]:
Hey, thank you so much for having me today. I think it's conversations like this that really help make conversations that have been historically so polarizing, and so taboo, and so stigmatized, really part of normal conversation. I had a great time today. I don't think I made you blush too much, did I?

[Dr. Jose Silva]:
No, no. There you go. Prime Institute, right?

[Dr. Amy Pearlman]:
Prime Institute.

[Dr. Jose Silva]:
You can find Dr. Pearlman anywhere on the internet. Thank you, Amy.

Podcast Contributors

Dr. Amy Pearlman on the BackTable Urology Podcast

Dr. Amy Pearlman is a urologist and the director of the Men’s Health Program at the University of Iowa.

Dr. Jose Silva on the BackTable Urology Podcast

Dr. Jose Silva is a board certified urologist practicing in Central Florida.

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BackTable, LLC (Producer). (2025, March 25). Ep. 222 – Exploring Penile Girth Enchancement Techniques [Audio podcast]. Retrieved from https://www.backtable.com

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